Choose your hard.

Caught in the crossroads of a tornado? Turmoil? Conflict?

It is hard to juggle and live 2 extremes, you have to choose one. Or wait for ‘it’ to choose you.

You are either living ‘the life’ partying it up and doing whatever you want in whatever condition you choose and ok with losing jobs, homes, health, stability, and relationships because of those conditions. And that’s ok – Your choice.

 Or

You are working hard with the struggles, frustrations and time sucks of parenting and relationships. And you are ok with having less social time, not partying, not doing whatever you want, whenever, always mindful of being sober and appreciating a different type of fulfillment.. satisfaction. And that’s ok – your choice.

 Both choices are hard.

They both have positive and negative consequences.

But – you must pick.

They don’t go together.

You can’t have both.

One choice is complete selfishness and affects everyone around you.

The other is unselfish and at times sacrificial, and also affects everyone around you.

Reflect. Be 100% with your decision.

Mourn what you chose to let go and move forward.

Once you pick…either way, don’t look back.

Live ‘your’ life.

 @koimonkeydragons

 

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